Most meetings fail because they mix three different modes. Each needs different prep, different participants, different decision rights.
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## Review
**Purpose:** Track progress against plan. Identify variance. Decide: keep course or intervene.
**Cadence:** Regular (weekly/monthly)
**Participants:** Owner + stakeholders with decision rights
**Prep required:**
- Metrics vs targets (variance highlighted)
- Root cause if off-track
- Proposed corrective action
**Decision mode:** Binary - stay course or intervene. No debate on the plan itself.
**Red flags:**
- Re-explaining the strategy
- Debating whether targets are right
- Long context-setting before showing numbers
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## Tactics
**Purpose:** Coordinate execution. Remove blockers. Sequence work.
**Cadence:** Frequent (daily standups to weekly)
**Participants:** Execution team + dependencies
**Prep required:**
- Status: done, doing, blocked
- Specific asks (who needs what from whom)
- Capacity reality (WIP visibility)
**Decision mode:** Fast - unblock, sequence, commit to next actions.
**Red flags:**
- Long updates with no asks
- Strategic debates ("should we even be doing this?")
- Status updates that lead nowhere
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## Strategy
**Purpose:** Set direction. Test choices. Allocate resources to big bets.
**Cadence:** Infrequent (quarterly to annually)
**Participants:** Leadership team + domain experts
**Prep required:**
- Hypothesis being tested
- Evidence for/against (not just "for")
- What we'd need to believe for this to work
- Rational opposite (what would we do instead?)
**Decision mode:** Rigorous - two-way door decisions need scrutiny. Debate the logic, not the people.
**Red flags:**
- Operational details drowning out strategic choice
- No clear alternatives considered
- Consensus-seeking without testing assumptions
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## How to use this
**Diagnosis:** Look at your calendar. What's labeled "strategy session" but feels like status updates? What's labeled "standup" but turns into 90-minute debates?
**Fix:** Name the mode explicitly. "This is a review - we're not debating the plan, we're checking progress." Prep, participants, and decision rights follow from that.
**Test:** After the meeting, can you clearly state what was decided and what mode you were in? If not, you mixed modes.